an exploring epicurean: Feeling Grateful

One of my best friends in the whole wide world is currently participating in a similar English teaching program in Shanghai, China. Although this is Ellen’s second time living in the PRC and her Chinese skills are becoming better all the time, the cultural differences between East and West really show when we discuss our experiences. A week or two ago, Ellen and I were discussing her situation in China, as it has prompted some struggles that she didn’t previously foresee. She told me that she thought one of the things that might change her experience would be if she was somewhere where it was easier to befriend more locals, but the reality of that dream is fairly unattainable due to language and cultural barriers.

It made me think about my situation here, because Ellen is such a vibrant, friendly, clever woman who would probably already have a Spanish husband if she was living with me in Córdoba (side note, Ellen is actually doing a great job developing relationships in China). One of the things that I’ve learned on this adventure is that people all over the world are the same in countless ways. However, that realization goes hand in hand with the fact that culture is sometimes an incredible barrier. Despite many frustrations that I’ve encountered, I am currently living in a country full of a dynamic, hospitable culture, which has been a real blessing. I’ve met fantastic people here who have welcomed me into their lives with open arms, and for that I am truly thankful.

Most of my Spanish friends are from Auri’s group of girlfriends, but they have extended countless invitations to me even when I’m not with Auri. These girls are all so different, but each so wonderful. I guess I’m just taking this moment to feel grateful for what I have here in Spain. Even when it’s difficult, the people here are what help me get through. I’m a lucky girl!